Friday, May 22, 2026 - The wife of an Akwa Ibom pastor, Emem Isong, has stated that a man with no money, plan, discipline has no business chasing women.
The preacher, who stated this in a Facebook post on
Thursday, May 21, 2026, said it's ugly watching a woman lose herself making
sacrifices for a man that has nothing to offer her but stress and financial
burden.
According to Mrs Isong, men should be able to bring value,
peace and mutual progress to the table.
However, a man who has nothing to offer should stay alone
with their own lack and leave women alone.
While love is important, she pointed out that love without
stability leads to pain.
Addressing women, she advised them to wake up if they are
laying next to men that can't pull out money from the ATM.
“You ever
seen a woman lose herself trying to love a man who had nothing to give her but
stress? I have. And it’s ugly. She starts off soft—supportive, believing in
him. But over time, the bills pile up, her smile fades, and her eyes get tired.
Tired of carrying it all,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Thursday, May 21,
2026.
"A man
with no money, no plan, no discipline has no damn business chasing love.
"That’s
not romantic—it’s reckless. What you’re really doing is looking for a woman to
sponsor your struggle while you ‘figure it out.’
"That’s
not being a man. That’s being a burden.
"If you
can’t provide peace, protection, or progress—leave her alone.
"Don’t
drag her into your chaos because you’re scared to be alone with your own lack.
"You
think love will fix it? Nah. Love without stability just turns into pāin. And
she’ll remember you as the lesson, not the blessing.
"If
you're laying next to a man that can't pull out money of the ATM, wake the hell
up.
"So
before you pull up talking about love, ask yourself: Am I bringing peace—or
just more problems?
“If your
fathers didn’t teach you, I am! No Dusty Bums Allowed! YADAAwakening #family
#wife #standards #peace #lifestyle.”
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