Dear women, if you can no longer satisfy your husband and he is ready to take another wife, don’t stand in his way - Nigerian woman advises her gender

Tuesday, November 25, 2025 - A Nigerian woman, Halima Bukola Mubaraq, has advised married women not to stop their husbands from marrying new wives if they can no longer satisfy them s3xually. 

“Wife please, if you know deep down that you can no longer satisfy your husband, and he is capable and ready to take another wife, then don’t stand in his way,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Monday. 

"If he chooses to marry again, allow him peacefully. Don’t threaten him, guilt-trip him, or use emotional manipulation to hold him back. Because if he falls into zina (fornication) out of fear of upsetting you, then part of that sin falls on you.

"Marriage is not about control, it’s about understanding. And to the men , if you allow a woman’s emotions to push you into disobeying Allah, or you let her manipulation dictate your decisions, then you’re not leading with wisdom. A real man is not ruled by fear or guilt, but by fairness, strength, and faith.

“Because at the end of the day, you’ll both stand before Allah and love won’t save you from accountability.”