Monday, June 10, 2024 -The legal counsel to May Edochie, the estranged wife of actor Yul Edochie, Emeka Ugwuonye, has tackled the actor over his comments that one can walk away from a bad marriage and marry as many as 50 times
Recall that the actor while speaking
on a podcast recently, said marriage should not be a do or die affair and that
people should know when to walk away when it is no longer working.
In his words
‘’Marriage is not a do or die thing.
No! It could work. If you see it's not working, walk away. Respectfully. You
don't have to hurt each other, you don't have to…Once you walk away and you see
the next person you want to marry, marry. If it doesn't work again, go. See
another one again, marry. You can marry fifty times. You can't control how
people react towards you. What makes me happy is different from what makes is
going to make you happy and do not let anyone tell you do this and it will be
good for you. No! Find out what works for you. And if you decide in this life
that you will not marry till you die, please don't marry. Be happy''
Ugwuonye in a post shared on Facebook today
June 10, said this was not what the actor did in his case. He pointed out that
Yul wanted to force polygamy on May instead of ‘walking away’ from their
marriage.
He also argued that walking away from a marriage without doing the necessary things is wrong. His post reads;
‘’YUL
EDOCHIE IS AGAIN WRONG: WHEN YOU NO LONGER LIKE YOUR MARRIAGE, YOU DON’T JUST
WALK AWAY.
Yul
Edochie’s recent interview has been generating attention on social media. In
it, he said as follows:
“If Your
Marriage Is Not Working, Walk Away And Marry Someone Else; If The New Marriage
Still Doesn't Work, Walk Away. You Can Marry Up To 50 Times” — Yul Edochie
But he is
doubly wrong on this. First, this was not what he did in respect of his
marriage to Queen May. He didn’t walk away with an intent to end his marriage
with May. Instead, he wanted to add a second wife and remain married to May as
“a proud polygamist”. So, one wonders when Yul came upon the theory he is now
bandying about.
Second, Yul
is wrong because what you do when you are no longer interested in your marriage
is not to walk away. Rather, you take steps to properly end such a marriage.
Marriage is not a beer parlour where you can just walk in or walk out. It is an
institution created by law. As an institution, it takes legal ceremonies to
create a marriage, which then transform into a family. Also, marriage results
in many cases, including his, children could be born to the marriage and
marital properties jointly acquired by husband and wife during the marriage.
So, when you want to end your marriage, you should take steps to undo the first
legal ceremony that created the marriage through another legal ceremony that
dissolves it. Also, you ought to address issues of the custody of children,
access to the children, maintenance of the children and the sharing of the
marital properties.
Having your
so-called second wife spread lies and falsehood against your wife in order to
tarnish her image and isolate her from society is not “walking away”. It is a
dumb and wicked act.
So, in his
recent interview, Yul, again disappointed all those who once saw him as an
intelligent person. They need to remind him that what he said on the interview
was not what he did, and tell him that no reasonable person can just walk away
from his family. It is the height of irresponsibility to try to walk away from
a marriage without caring about the children or by trying to force your wife
into a polygamy. Besides, he needs to be reminded that he can't "marry
someone else" until he has divorced the first wife.''
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