"Men will never change" Lawyer advises 'unhappy wives' to walk out of marriage before they’re diagnosed with depression and high blood pressure

Wednesday, October 21, 2026 - A South African lawyer, Akani Mongwane, has advised women to divorce their husbands if they aren’t happy in their marriages to avoid ending up with depression and high blood pressure.

The lawyer, who gave the advice in a Facebook post on Tuesday, October 20, said it's better to be a divorcee with money, than an unhappy wife. 

“Divorce him

Before you are diagnosed with depression and High Blood. Men will never change. If we can start your divorce now, by December you will be eating his pension money with your kids. At least be a divorcee with money rather than being miserable wife.. It is not like your happy and Stuff," he wrote. 

Below is his post: