Friday, August 21, 2026 - BBNaija star, Bella Okagbue, has broken her silence over the controversy surrounding her breakup with former boyfriend Sheggz, saying she eventually stopped believing promises and began paying attention to patterns.
Bella addressed the issue in a statement shared on her
social media page, explaining that she had remained silent because she believed
some parts of their relationship should stay private.
She said she genuinely loved Sheggz and defended their
relationship because she believed in it, adding that she gave him another
chance because she believed people could change.
However, Bella said believing someone could change did not
mean she had to wait indefinitely for that change.
“The person everyone experiences publicly isn’t always the
person you experience privately,” she wrote.
The reality star also addressed discussions about marriage
and the ring Sheggz previously said he bought for her.
“A ring doesn’t fix what made a relationship impossible,”
Bella said.
Bella further challenged some versions of events about their
relationship that have emerged online, saying they did not reflect her own
experience.
She added that there were other parts of her experience she
had deliberately kept private and would speak about when she felt ready.
“A hundred promises. Not one fulfilled,” she wrote, adding
that she eventually stopped listening to promises and started paying attention
to patterns.
Bella said she had given the relationship love, loyalty and
another chance, but reached a point where trust, respect and peace could no
longer exist alongside that loyalty.
She said she did not regret trying again but had now decided
to put herself first and walk away.
“So today, I choose myself. I choose differently,
regardless of what comes with it,” she wrote.
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