“You should be ashamed of yourself” JENNIFER LOPEZ’s first ex-husband, OJANI NOA, accuses her of cheating after she said all her exes were not "capable" of loving her

Sunday, October 19, 2025 - Jennifer Lopez's recent comment about not feeling truly loved has drawn criticism from her first ex-husband, Ojani Noa. 

Ojani took to Instagram to accuse Lopez of playing the victim and claimed she was unfaithful during their 1997-1998 marriage.

He said he loved her and sacrificed for the marriage but she could not "keep it in her pants" 

Ojani, a Cuban actor, wrote on Instagram: "The problem [is] not us. Not me. The problem [is] you. 

"You the one who couldn't keep it in your pants. You have been 'loved' a few times. You have been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between. You have had good relationships. Me for example." 

Noa added that he was "in love" with the Kiss of the Spider Woman star, recounting that he moved out of state to "support," "protect" and "care" for his former wife. 

"I'm an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never [misbehaved], never cheated on you. I was good to you. I'm too good of a [man] for you," he continued. 

The entertainer claimed that Lopez chose "fame and fortune" over their marriage, which resulted in its downfall. "You decided to lie, to cheat on me and even though I stayed." 

Noa also alleged that Lopez "begged" him to keep their marriage intact to avoid "bad press." 

"But you, you [went] for the fast last of your career/stardom not caring about me. You wanted to continue cheating and lying," Noa wrote. 

"I couldn't stay and deal anymore with the constant lying, that's why I left you, that's why I divorced you." 

Noa ended by urging Lopez to "tell the truth for once" and called her the "problem." 

"You should be embarrassed, ashamed of [yourself]," he concluded.

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