Tuesday, October 14, 2025 - Big Brother Naija star, Eriata Ese has tackled Nigerian woman who judged her for having a child out of wedlock.
It all started when Eriata shared a photo of herself on
social media and the troll condemned unmarried mothers.
In a fiery response, Eriata wrote:
“Hardworking
wife, abeg try shut up and focus on your marriage. Them no dey pick husband for
ground carry go house. Ndi ala cho cho cho.”
The actress expanded on her views on Snapchat, urging people
to stop judging women without understanding their personal struggles or reasons
for choosing a different life path.
“Inasmuch as
marriage is a good thing, some people don’t think or wonder why a person chose
a certain path,” she said. “You don’t know my past, if I’ve been abused, have
trauma, or trust issues I’m healing from. You don’t know if I’m waiting for
something to click before I say yes to marriage or if I’m still working on
myself to be someone’s peace. Yet, people jump online to type nonsense because
commenting is free.”
Eriata also condemned the societal pressure on women
regarding marriage and motherhood, pointing out how women are shamed regardless
of their choices.
“You’ll
hear, ‘Once you’re 30+, just have your kids.’ When you do, they’ll ask,
‘Where’s the father?’ If you wait for marriage, they’ll say you’re too old.
When love finally comes, they’ll question why the man didn’t marry a younger
girl. And ironically, most of the people saying these things are women,” she
said
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