Wednesday, October 1, 2025 - The campaign to end Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) in Nigeria has gained renewed momentum in Benin City, with experts asserting that protecting girls from this harmful practice is both an urgent act of genuine love and crucial national duty.
The experts emphasised that by doing so, society secures the
future, health, and dignity of girls, rather than inflicting irreversible
harm.
They lamented that some families still subject their
daughters to FGM, mistakenly believing it to be an expression of love.
The experts spoke during a two-day media dialogue on the
dangers of the FGM which was convened by UNICEF which attracted experts,
advocates and journalists.
The conversation, which drew voices from across the field,
came with a strong appeal that many may not expect: men must step up and take
responsibility in the fight.
They stressed that it is the society’s urgent responsibility
to educate and demonstrate that’s genuine love lies in protecting a girl’s
future, ensuring her health and dignity rather than causing irreversible harm.
One if the experts, Dennis Onoise, Child Protection
Specialist with UNICEF Lagos, warned that the country holds the unenviable
position of being the third highest globally in the practice, after India and
Bangladesh.
According to him, FGM is often misunderstood as merely
cutting, but the reality is more damaging. “Even applying substances like
Vaseline to a baby girl’s clitoris over time can permanently damage her body,”
he explained.
He noted that many of the justifications for the practice
are rooted in myths rather than genuine culture, citing the false belief that
it prevents promiscuity. “If that were true, we wouldn’t find survivors among
commercial sex workers,” he said.
Beyond the myths, Onoise reminded the gathering of the
severe health risks that survivors live with, ranging from difficulties with
urination to complications in marriage, pregnancy and childbirth, all of which
leave permanent scars both physically and emotionally.
FGM consultant, Mrs. Aderonke Olutayo, lamented that
despite the existence of laws such as the Violence Against Persons Prohibition
(VAPP) Act, there has been no formal report of FGM in most South-West states
since 2014, even though evidence shows the practice persists.
She attributed this silence to fear of reprisals, stigma,
weak links between communities and law enforcement, and poor awareness of legal
protections.
According to her, many families do not even know that
cutting a girl is a punishable offence. She warned that this silence emboldens
perpetrators, including some health workers who secretly perform FGM under the
guise of safety.
Olutayo further drew attention to the absence of men in FGM
interventions, despite their position as key decision-makers in families and
communities. “This exclusion is dangerous,” she noted. “When men are not
informed, they can unknowingly reinforce harmful traditions. But when engaged,
they can become the strongest allies for change.” The reality, she stressed,
is that fathers and male relatives often have the final say on whether a girl
is cut, yet few programmes deliberately target them.
The dialogue also spotlighted the plight of survivors, many
of whom suffer in silence. Shame and denial, according to the experts, keep
them from seeking help. Participants stressed the need to create safe spaces
where survivors can be supported and healed, instead of stigmatised.
Speakers at the dialogue agreed on the urgent need for wider
awareness campaigns in local languages, confidential reporting channels to
protect whistleblowers, and better training for health workers to resist and
report pressure to perform the practice. Above all, they called for the direct
involvement of men and boys as advocates in homes, schools, places of worship
and the wider community.
“Just like families once believed tribal marks were
necessary, one day FGM will be remembered as an outdated norm,” Onoise said.
The dialogue ended with a reminder that FGM is not only a
women’s issue but a national duty. As Olutayo put it, “Families often cut
their daughters believing it is an act of love. It is our job to show them that
true love means protecting a girl’s future, not harming it.”
Obviously, the challenge is that Nigeria will end FGM when
not only men refuse to remain bystanders, but the society sees the task as a
national duty to girls and women.

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