If you have been trying to conceive without success, try another man - Nigerian lady advises married women to put themselves first

Tuesday, July 15, 2025 - A Nigerian lady, Anthonia Umerah, has advised married women who have been trying to conceive for many years without success to try their luck with other men as a woman's fertile years are limited. 

She gave the advice in a Facebook post on Monday while reacting to the comment made by a Nigerian woman, Ifeyenwa Chybe, about how she cheated on her cheating husband and got pregnant for another man after ten years of childlessness. 

“If you have been trying to conceive for many years, sometimes, try another preek to see if your lùck can shine with another amu. Your husband may be the issue. Don’t allow him hold you back from having your own child. Women have limited fertile years unlike men! Do it while you can before you enter men0pause,” she wrote. 

"Men chèat on their wives daily and our society considers it to be normal and their entitlement. If trying another amu will give you a child if you need a child, by all means, chèat and have your own child sis.

"Men won’t like this advice but it is what it is! 

"Put yourself and your limited fertile years first as a woman.

“Your husband will not even hesitate to try another woman to have a child if you are the issue. Men always put themselves first!”