Friday, May 30, 2025 - A Nigerian woman, Buithat Hudu Muhammad Lawal, has said that some women are not meant to be first wives.
The biochemist, who stated this in a Facebook post on
Wednesday, advised single ladies to settle down with married men instead of
using them as sugar daddies.
“Some of you
single ladies, let’s be honest, your destinies are different. You were never
meant to be the first wife. You're meant to be the second, third, or even
fourth,” she wrote.
But this
modern-day ideology of "one man, one wife" is holding you back.
Instead of
settling down with a responsible man who already has a wife, you keep chasing
fairy tales.
You end up
using the married men as sugar daddies or money machines, while allowing small
boys with nothing to offer to toy with your heart.
In the end,
you’ll be the one shouting “men are scarce.”
My sister,
open your eyes. Look for a man with one wife and respectfully find where to
chook head.
Don’t fight
for position, just live in peace and enjoy your own share of love and
stability.
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